Question? Give us a call:1- 773-262-1700
Get access to exclusive deals - Follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest:
Pinterest

  See all our latest titles:   New Release Books
                           |
Jan 21 Tu B'Shevat
Mar 21 Purim
Apr 20 First day of Passover
Apr 27 Last day of Passover
May 2 Yom HaShoah
May 9  Yom HaAtzmaut
May 23  Lag B'Omer
Jun 9 Shavuot
Aug 11 Tisha B'Av
Sep 30 Rosh Hashana
Oct 9 Yom Kippur
Oct 14 First day of Sukkot
Oct 20 Last day of Sukkot
Oct 21 Shmini Atzeret/Simchat Torah
Dec 23 First day of Chanukah
Dec 30 Last day of Chanukah

  Home > Books > Contemporary Issues >

Shidduch Crisis: Causes and Cures
Shidduch Crisis: Causes and Cures
 
Our Price: $19.50

Product Code: 9178
Qty:

Description
 
Dr. Michael J. Salamon

Publisher: Urim Publications


The Shidduch Crisis: Causes and Cures takes a hard, honest look at the real difficulties faced by the dating public in today’s Orthodox world. With the rates of divorce and eating disorders rising, complaints regarding the shortage of men and the move away from socializing activities to the extensive use of third-party matchmakers, a true crisis exists and may be worsening. In this book, the author explores these issues, particularly those related to how matches are made. He finds that most are made based on availability, not compatibility, and on superficial criteria that have no relevance to what truly makes a marriage successful. Citing relevant data from the fields of psychology, sociology, and neurology, along with a host of anecdotes from a wide range of people, Dr. Salamon, a well-known psychologist, author, and lecturer, provides guidelines to help alleviate this crisis.

Dr. Salamon looks at the lists of criteria, the questions that people ask and the expectations for a mate that have developed over the last several years within the shidduch (matchmaking for marriage) process, and shows how they are counter-intuitive for forming healthy marriages. He also shows how much of what passes for background checking, in fact, may be lashon ha-ra (tale bearing). But most importantly, Dr. Salamon provides real suggestions for going beyond the physical, superficial standards that have contributed to a developing shidduch crisis. He advocates an approach where a measure of personal maturity is returned to those who are dating and makes the case for alleviating the external pressures on the dating couple.

Share your knowledge of this product with other customers... Be the first to write a review
(Your shopping cart is empty)